…. : (

September 19th, 2007 by jhem-eighteen

i miss everything we used to have…..

the way you smile, the way you talk…

the way you make me laugh….

i miss the times we spent together..

the movies we’d watched, the funny moments we shared…

i miss the times we quarrel…

and how we settle down everything…

i miss the way you hold me, the way you comfort me…

and i miss the way you wipe away my tears…

above all…

i miss the way you say…

"I LOVE YOU"……….

= (

haizzt……

August 7th, 2007 by jhem-eighteen

Hmmmmm why am i longing for you this way

longing for your touch, for your warm embrace

longin to hear you say these words:

"I love you more than anything else in this world"

feeling so happy seeing you around

if you could only hear my hearbeat’s sound

seeing you smile everytime you passes by

makes my heart beat, so fast and loud.

‘know i shouldn’t feel this way

i tried to forget you, but i really can’t

sometimes i just wish i could ger away from you

but my mind keeps on thinking about the things you do.

maybe i can say i’m already crazy over you

i don’t know why though i know it’s true

i may not know how, but i have to admit

I’m falling for you and i can’t help it!

hayzztt….

di mu nman alam eh….

=(

wen love is about to fade……..

February 11th, 2007 by jhem-eighteen

so many times…..

we are about to fall and break down…

not just once…

not twice..

not thrice…

but many..

many times……

i wanted to qiut…

but a part of me is saying i musn’t…

i wanted to say that i am already tired…

tired of the endless misunderstandings…

of endless re-opened topics….

but then..

i kept myself holding on..

why?

for a single reason..

my heart doesn’t want to loose him…

though my mind speaks for a little breathing space…

and my eyes are asking for a rest…

i chose to stay…

maybe, it’s true….

if you’re really meant to be,

love will pave a way to help you keep on holding on..

to keep your powers in strength…

i hope this is what love wants to tell me…

that we are meant for each other…

that we are destined to be with each other…

we made a promise…

…and i dont want to have that promise broken…

…….sana mkaya ko ulit, for another trials……………………….

rEaLiTiEs AbOuT ReLaTiOnShIp

October 12th, 2006 by jhem-eighteen
The guy who loves her mom will be a goodboyfriend. Why? Because if he has high respect for his father, he will have high respect for women. (ehem…)
Don’t give everything away. Leave some things a mystery. Guy love conquest. If you already give your all, wala ng something to look forward to sa relationship nyo. And the guy will become kampante. Assure him of your love and faithfulness, but warn him too: "umayos ka diyan! You can lose me anytime…".
BIG PAGKAKAIBA: What a girl needs most is love. What a guy needs most is respect. The most important thing for a girl is her heart. For a guy its his ego.
Give your men his own time and space. Let his have his time for her friends, sports, family, self, and God. The relationship will grow old quickly if lagi kayong magkasama. Give his time to miss you and you’ll see how he will love you more. If the guynaman is obsessed and just wants to be with you all the time, tell him you cant respect a "puppy" for long.
Do things differently anytime. Para kahit matagal na kayo, there is always something fresh and new. Variety is the spice of life. Exciting baga? "Making love" is better than just "having sex". And true love "waits". Save your precious "gift" on your wedding night. Di nagiging tama ang mali, just because uso naman and everyone’s doing it. Be iba.
Discover something you both like to do and enjoy it TWOgether. Doon naman sa mga bagay na magkaiba ang hilig nyo, compliment each other by learning about it kahit konti. If you love someone, yung effort nyo to try will go a looooong way to understanding him later pag may disagreement kayo.
Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny noh? Maybe, but its very powerful. Pag may takot sa Diyos ang boyfrend,mo, kampante ka na di ka nya lolokohin, because he knows God sees everything he does in secret. Ikaw na ang magkusa that before you part after date, with hold hands and eyes closed, pray to God to bless you two. Believe me it’s effective. Kailanman, di corny ang magdasal.
Never think "mababago ko sya pag kami na…". Only God can change a person, and only if that person wants to. Even God cannot steer parked cars. Believe in "Magic". Kahit di minsan practical o walang logical na dahilan, o matrabaho, o sounds crazy sa iba, do sweet little things for the one you love kahit magmukha ka ng timang. The memories will be fun to recall later in life. The corniest song o gift o letter (aminin mo) ang laging kabog!
True love brings out the best in each other. Find something good in yourboyfriend and nurture it, encourage it and syempre, ENJOY it.
It’s healthy to fight. Doon nyo lang maaayos ang mga differences nyo at natetest ang tatag ng relationship. Doon mo rin sya makikilala ng mabuti. Its called test of fire. Di mahalaga how dalas you fight. What matters is how often you make bati. Mas nakakatakot yung relasyong sobrang perfect at laging masaya. One big fight and that’s it! And diba mas kilig yung malambing na… "uy, bati na tayo…". But don’t overdo it. Kakapagod naman din na lagi na lang manuyo o magsori. Choose the battles na papatulan mo. The little issues, palampasin na. Don’t sweat the small stuff.
Daraan sa iba’t-ibang stages ang love especially pag matagal na kayo. Grow with it. Don’t expect him to be like nung una. ‘Coz like a student, di na ituturo sa grade 6 yung lessons na pang- grade 2. Change WILL happen… you both will change and your love WILL change too. It’s up to you na lang if the change will be for the better or for the worse. Life is about growth. Grow with it.
When break up comes and it’s time to say goodbye, don’t doubt the love just because it didn’t last. May mga bagay sa buhay na di man nagtatagal, it doesn’t mean di na ito totoo. Some good things are just never meant to last forever>>> am i right?stay cool dude!!!!!!!!!x0 in luv!!!!!!!!